Many of us today live with a gnawing sense of frustration and anxiety. We feel frustrated and fruitless. Somehow we have a sense that we are less than we should be, less than we could be. Sometime we're right. But most times we're wrong.
Many of our clients are in jobs, relationships or other situations where they feel confused and frustrated. They question everything about their lives and search desperately for some way out of what feels like a hopeless situation. Certainly some are dealing with really big issues while others are dealing with a multiplicity of small ones. However some soon find that there is no way "out" and begin seeking a way to live "with" the situation.
When we feel desperate it's common to look around for something that will solve our dilemma. Folks try church, temple or mosque. They try relocation, changing jobs, changing partners, new hobbies or new social groups. Trying these things are not bad ideas they are peripheral to the true need.
We go another way. We assist our clients in discovering their true motives for living and the manner in which they want to relate to their world. We believe that our behavior (living) flow from what matters most to us (what we believe). That may be a particular religious perspective, a philosophical system or simply words of wisdom grandma shared. Whatever it is, when we live in contradition to it or we live with it under attack we suffer.
We assist our clients in accomplishing three very basic things. Identifying what matters most to them. Where is that being hindered or smothered. How can I begin to live out what matters most to me more faithfully and effectively.It's a simply process but it isn't an easy one. The hardest part is you taking an honest and gracious look at you.
It's hard because we rarely do it. It's hard because we usually just settle for what others tell us. It's hard becasue we grow settled into whatever picture of us our world has painted for us. We've been told we don't matter, what matters to us doesn't matter, and all sorts of other junk. We fought it - but we're tired. Maybe we even feel beaten. but we don't have to be.
It's not about changing jobs, relocation or changing partners. You may ultimately decide to do one or more of thosew things but it will be your decision based upon what matters most to you and not desperation.We've worked alonside Psychiatrists, Psychologists, Counselors and Spiritual Leaders to help those in their care. We've worked with men and women of all ages at all different stages of their lives. We've worked with folks who were dealing with all kinds of usses from their past and in their present.
We take what they bring (what matters most to them) and help them make that a source of light and energy in their lives. It becomes the fulcrum (that which supplies capability for action) in their lives.We do not change your world, we do not change you.
We help you identify, clarify and then put into use what matters most to you. It's that simple - and it's that hard. Call us, it costs nothing to find out more.........
